Hi everyone,
When stress levels are high, it’s hard to do our best work—or even just feel like ourselves. Know that your reaction is a physiological one, please be gentle with yourself. Your brain often treats proximity as a personal threat, unable to separate 'near me' from 'to me'. Over time, this chronic activation isn't just tiring—it physically alters how we function, shallowing our breath and impairing our judgment exactly when we need clarity most.
I’ve put together some everyday ways to regulate your nervous system to signal to your body that it’s okay to let go of some of that tension, most of which just take a few minutes:
1. The "Physiological Sigh"
This is one of the fastest ways to lower your heart rate.
- Take a deep breath in through your nose.
- At the very top, take a second, shorter sharp inhale to fully expand the lungs.
- Exhale slowly through your mouth until you are completely empty.
- Repeat 2–3 times.
2. Temperature Reset
A sudden change in temperature can "reboot" the nervous system.
- Splash ice-cold water on your face or wrists. 15-30 seconds is plenty.
- This triggers the mammalian dive reflex, which naturally slows the heart rate and redirects blood flow to the brain and heart. It interrupts stress loops without shocking your system.
3. Eat one meal a day in absolute silence
Digestion improves when attention isn't split across inputs.
- No phone, no podcast, no talking
4. Humming on long exhales
This naturally lengthens your exhale and calms your system more easily than silent breathing for many. Use this if you are tired and wired and can't sleep.
- Inhale through the nose for 4 counts
- Hum on the exhale as long as comfortable, feel the vibration in the chest/face.
- 2-4 minutes is enough
5. Shower in the dark
This reduces sensory input and is one of the fastest ways to calm your overstimulated nervous system.
6. Therapeutic Shaking
This completes the stress cycle. Use after hard conversations, panic "hangover", or an adrenaline pump.
- Stand with soft knees
- Shake legs, hips, arms, jaw lightly
- Let it look awkward and maybe even be a little silly
- Finish by lying down with one hand on chest, one hand on belly for 60 seconds.
- 2-4 minutes of shaking, then 1 minute stillness